Zzzz.
I make conclusions using just what i see and think.
I'm making one now, and seeing if its zhun or not.
Somehow. I saw it coming?
Does anyone still reads?
Me: "我的天空今天有点灰，我的心是个落叶的季节。。。" 我一直都在唱天灰sia..
Ah Liang: 怎么 leh？
Me: 不懂 leh， 唱很久了。。 我看我会唱天灰 for the entire year lohz.
Ah Liang: Orh~
Kok sin never quite fail to impress me since we got to know each other better. Today, he did it again.
He lost his ring sometime in the morning; the ring was the couple ring which him and his gf bought together. He was worried sick, and kept searching for it. From morning all the way till noon, I can see his eyes scanning the floor for any traces of his ring. Even when the gf didn’t say much, he still continued searching. Its quite disheartening as a friend on my part to not being able to help in any way.
After school, we stayed back for some bball till 6 plus plus. Then the rain came, and we went in for shelter. As I went for a drink, kok sin came up to me with a smile and he was on the verge of skipping with joy.
Him: "Do you believe in Jesus? Found it liao lehz!! Hahahahhahaz…"
Luck favours the determined I guess.
I typed this, I just couldn’t help smiling as well.
My utmost honour to bear witness to a guy’s true love to his girl. Amazing.
NYP Scandal.
Such a big dai ji(affair) and yet not many speak of it?
Ok, maybe it isn't exactly huge, but local homemade porn leh, S'pore so small somemore, very easy to see her one right? Then it'll be so embarassing for her?
Actually, i only blogged about her now not because the topic is taboo that i had to moderate the post for so long (in fact, i can even give you a link to a juicy webby~~*evil grin*), but because i only knew about the entire thing 2-3 days ago! Sad, i damn lag in the news.
It started with me seeing some of the guys in class exchanging/seeing/ogling at some pictures of a gal-whom-they-say-is-chio-but-i-think-is-not-chio-at-all. Then saw two of them watching/ogling at the palmtop playing something. I guessed a little what it could be, but to my surprise, it was more than i thought. Local one sia. siao-siao, dun play play lar.
I'm curious about a few things about this incident like the video, so can someone send me?, like why the need to film it in the first place. And how can anyone be so heartless to distribute it? Below are some reasons i suggest.
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For fun, happiness and laughter.
Bored le can take out and play then see la. Otherwise, can use as educational video on sex next time if she gets pregnant right?
For improvement.
Because government tell us to constantly upgrade ourselves to keep up with competition from other countries, so she decides not to lose out to other countries' porn stars and decides to take the video then critique on it.
Guy: Eh, wrong la, not like that, muz haf more emotion ma! Aiyo, wrong wrong, muiz show that you're enjoying it, dun look like you in labour liddat ma, aiyo~~
Girl: *takes pen and writes down on notebook*
Just stupid.
Quoting what a friend said, ownself enjoy can le wad, film it down for other people to enjoy as well for what? How true.
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On a serious note, I think people shouldn't comment about how sick the filming is, but how sick the one who distributed the video is. As jingngei always says, cek ark ar~ Well, she's certainly learnt her lesson,next time take le send to com then delete the one in fone de la, so why don't the people whom watched the video just shut up and let her move on?let you watch liao enjoy enjoy still go out suan her, heartless lehz.
PS: Read this not with seriousness.
Lotsa work
I shocked myself by asking this question unknowingly, innocently.
"How to look at things in a better way?"
Goodness.
Call me heartless. Wadever~
No matter how big the apology. how public the apology. How pitiful you may look.
I'll still stick to the same attitude. Because i'm a pretty stubborn guy.
Because I'm taking it as if we've never known each other. So you should just take the same attitude.
Get on with your life. Blog whatsoever you like.
Because I don't feel like giving a damn anymore.
Ego.
Suddenly, whatever i do just becomes do doubtful.
Everytime i poked fun at hongyi saying he's egotistic, i used the example on myself to see if i had every done anything similar.
I suddenly realise i don't know. In the past, i can be so clear about myself; telling myself if i had been wrong in something, or right. Now i can't.
All along, i've always done things thinking i was right. I seldom question myself if there weren't any comments about the things i did; otherwise, i'll be pretty confident about it. But somehow, that confidence is slipping away. Take for example the recent incident, only few were affected, and hell, i was the only one so damn pissed off. The others were simply nonchalant about it, no support or objections whatsoever. Then i start to doubt myself. "Was i wrong?", "Am i being too petty?"
Somehow, the answers 'YES' echoed at me. Especially when the people affected just were so... calm about it. At the back of my mind, I could almost imagine them looking at me, thinking how the hell can a guy get so damn petty about some insignificant events. And, it just......
I always do things basing on my feelings, if i shuang then i do it. And for this incident, i know i am angry, so i did what i did. But i don't know exactly why, somehow, the reasons i give didn't sound as convincing as i thought. Justifying my actions on grounds that i perceive to be right no longer is working on me.
Suddenly it just makes sense. Unable to see my own mistakes... Picking on people's mistakes...
Maybe all along.
I'm the one who refuses to face my mistakes.
The one who finds every reason to justify my failure.
The one who refutes every judgment people gives me.
The one who thinks he is always right.
I don't know myself anymore.
Sad FOR A REASON this time.
Sometimes in certain conversations, you realise you simply can't fit into it. While the other people blabber on and on, more and more enthusiastically, you just feel more and more left out no matter how hard you tried to think of something to say.
That's what happened today. While the two of them talked on and on about sports and fitness stuff, all i can do is just put my head low and tried to think of something to say. Usually when i encounter(i always do) this problem with Wei Liang and Kok Mun as they discussed OGL stuff, its either they realise it and stops to take into account my feelings, or i can find some way to get myself into the conversation.
But today... Fitness and exercise is not my stuff, so i can't exactly fit in. Then they just went on and on... and my head gets lower and lower. Then they talk more and more......
And my feelings got lower and lower.
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On a side note. Hongyi commented that i am egotistic.
Seriously. Egotistic people don't get depressed. They only get too full of themselves. And egotistic people don't scold themselves all the time.
But i admit i'm pretty stubborn in my thinking. "Egotistic in my thinking" you can say.
Hiatus
Sometimes i wonder why why should i do so much. I mean, ya, all that do-gd-things-not-to-ask-for-returns blablabla~ is true. But... is all these necessary?
I'm handling 4 accounts on Friendster by myself, inclusive of mine. At first i thought setting up the account is a way of keeping people together, letting them find a way to connect with each other after losing touch for so long.
Keeping those accounts active for so long le. Not logical to give them up yet ba.
But i wonder if people even cared if these existed. Then i realise what happens next year? When i go into NS. This stops, doesn't it?
Next year. The blogging stops. Doesn't it?
Friendships stop, don't they?
Everything stops. Doesn't it?
Maybe. My life stops as well.
Getting in and out of depression so frequently that i think its becoming SHM...
悲伤
“悲伤比快乐持久，它在人的心里逗留更长的时间，并以一种特别的方式鼓舞人，因为它激发人思考自己的存在。” －导演，李安
快乐的回忆真的比较珍贵吗？ 在你回想从前时， 先浮现的是那些快乐的回忆还是伤心的？ 比起一部温馨感人的电影， 一部悲壮催泪的电影是否会留在你脑海里久一些？
在你生命中的转折， 让你豁然开窍的是快乐的发生还是震撼你心的事物？ 在种种成功人士的背后， 是一帆风顺的欢笑还是布满荆棘的崎岖路道？
其实， 悲伤会使你更成长， 让你更坚强， 虽然它让你痛苦。 快乐， 虽然它让你开心， 但它是instant gratification， 是刹那间的满足， 虚伪的幸福。
一个经历悲伤多过快乐的人， 不一定会比一个经历快乐多过悲伤的人幸福。 但一个经历快乐多过悲伤， 肯定不比一个经历悲伤多过快乐的人坚强。
度过了濒临死亡的悲伤，换来的是一身的钢铁
I'm ok
Somehow, she was right.
People only respond to sad posts. Not all the time, most of the time?
Why? Coz only when the person is sad will people realise the person's existence, or will people bother to type something in the tagbox?
Haven't really find out a reason to satisfy my curiousity.
Just a question in my mind. So one has to be constantly sad to get attention?
Then...
I'M SAD. I'M REALLY REALLY SAD, cuz serene's leaving the class
Just joking la~
Sigh..
No one has seen me quiet for hours. Not before yesterday. 今天的天空，有点灰。
When there're so many people around you who suddenly cared so much, you just somehow have to give them a reason for their concern.
I puked like hell yesterday and had a headache which so nearly killed me.
And i'm still going to school later on.
Given the amount of work left undone, tests un-revised; i foresee more of such days.
Humans are hypocritically fake
because we do things that we cannot achieve.
Nevermind if that sounded wrong, but sometimes i just feel that we get so hypocritical, and we don't bloody have the choice.
I'll just quote an example close to our hearts. Bloggers obviously blog because they want attention. Yet some people just say they want their blog private blah blah and they set passwords or something. That's a lil passe but just an example. Another example, once I posted something like me not having someone close to talk to, then i have a friend tagging me that she'll be there when i need the help.
But the problem is, we're not even close friends, is she sure she'll be able to do that/handle me? When we're not exactly close? Why say things for the sake of appeasing someone at the spur of the moment, when there's the possibility of you failing to do so and making things worse.
Then again, as a friend, what other thing can you do? At least she showed concern la=)
Another thing is when you do something wrong or you offend someone, you say things like, "I know saying sry wldn't help... But i'm sry".
That's like super-redundant la. Then apologise for what? Just say sry can liao lor, add that sentence for what? I know i know, to show how understanding and how considerate for other people's feelings right? (i know this cuz i used it before as well). Now onwards, i'll just be true and simply apologise(if the need arises).
Another example is when a blogger blogs that he/she is sad, or feeling depressed because of something, immediately the tagboard will be full of people telling he/her that, "its ok, look on the brighter side of life", or "nvm la, it'll be gone soon enough", or "i understand how you feel la... it'll be ok de..". Hello? Look on the brighter side? You not going through the pain of course can look what. Are you sure you understand the feeling? How you know you understand? Damn hypocritical la.
But, in the end, what choice do we have? Not very close friends, when you can't show concern with your actions, the only thing you can do is to helplessly prove it with words, no matter how hypocritical.
So feel free to flood my tagbox with it'll-be-ok messages when i'm down.. hahaz.
Its still better than not caring at all right?
I know i'll carry on to be a hypocrite=X
Yeah
First time heard this song already like it. Nice.
SHE- 一眼万年
泪有点咸有点甜
你的胸膛吻着我的侧脸
回头看踏过的雪
慢慢融化成草原
而我就像你没有一秒曾后悔
爱那么绵那么粘
管命运设定要谁离别
海岸线越让人流连
总是美得越蜿蜒
我们太倔强
连天都不忍再反对
深情一眼挚爱万年
几度轮回恋恋不灭
把岁月铺成红毯
见证我们的极限
心疼一句珍藏万年
誓言就该比永远更远
要不是沧海桑田
真爱怎么会浮现
Mood swing? Hope it swings away ba. Thx to those who cared..
常常伤心。 因为自己在悲伤的时候， 会关心自己的人都在梦乡。
Untitled
*sigh*
Because i can't find anything more negative to describe my feelings. The day just gets worse and worse and worse and worse.....
Slp.
I have no problem sleeping.
But.
Sleeping well just gets harder and harder and harder and harder...
Run
I lost to a lot of people.
I won myself.
Nobody knew...
how fucking depressed i was today.
For so long, i kept wondering what is the problem with me. Like how depressed i can really be, yet I can still laugh like a madman; like how nonchalant i am to other's criticisms, but totally beaten by my own inner thoughts; like I'm so timid in nature yet always so damn daring to say out my thoughts.
Then i realise it today; I have no control over my thoughts and emotions, so that makes what i do so detached from what i feel. I'm oblivious to people's criticisms, because when they say it to me, i can reflect upon it and decide for myself if i should take it, but when the criticism comes from those voices within that are so hurtful, I just lose myself.
Like today's returning of the test paper, I was saying how accustomed i am to failing. But deep down inside, I'm crumbling bit by bit as the words, "LOWEST IN CLASS" kept hitting and hitting and hitting and hitting and hitting and....
The best part is that the one beside me sneered at me when i was writing out my second correction.
No one noticed i guess. Because i still laughed and joke around.
Hurts like hell inside.
And then there's the problem that I'm so damn helpless with. Imagine someone you hate a lot is being on good terms with someone you care a lot for. Somehow, you kept thinking that the someone you hate is evil, but you can't do anything at all, because the someone you care for trusts the someone you hate, to a large extent.
Because of this, no matter how much hate i have inside, I can only shut up because... well, the someone you care for trust the someone you hate, so I have to be nice for the the someone you care's sake. I can't possibly break up their friendship because of what i believe, what if i was wrong? And even if i was right, i'll eventually be the bad guy for breaking up the friendship. If i cared about that someone, then certainly i wouldn't wish for the person to break up the friendship all because of me. Not like the someone i care would do that anyway.
All the fuck i can really do is to just worry and worry, and no one gives a damn if i worried. Because everything just comes to nought. I want to wash my hands of this. But i can't
I never keep my hatred to myself. Never. Only this time i did.
‘自我催眠’ never sounded so close to my heart before.
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This just showed, how much am i giving up, how much am i changing; for something that will never repay.
This just showed, how fucking lost am i to my own emotions. How words find me instead of me speaking them; how thoughts enter instead of me finding them.
I'm not being true to myself like that. Not being honest with myself.
I hope a car runs me down tomorrow in road run. At least my parents get the insurance money.
See. I'm losing myself to anger now.
用虚伪来压抑怨恨。
用笑容来遮掩伤痛。
At least I know the someone i care is doing good.
What do you think is worse?
人， 是会跌倒的。 人， 跌久了， 是会习惯的。 人， 习惯了跌倒， 是很难爬起的。 幸好, 难， 不代表不可能。
Saying something you wished you didn't say?
Or wishing you said something that you never said?
Very subjective question actually, can be neither, can be both, depending on circumstances i guess. Personally, i encounter the former more often, though i'm pretty scared by it, I thik the latter is worse.
At least you did something.
I'll just stick to words.
Totally inspired by Student's Sketchpad!!
Its so damn cool to shout of ur views and make satirical humour about the going-ons in the education system and to poke fun of all those top schools!!
I decided that i shall follow in their footsteps, and learn to express myself using drawings!!
Spend some time, and here it is, my first draft.
Ok. Maybe not.
Happiness.
My toe is hurting like happiness now.
Happiness.
I just realise yesterday felt like the happiest day in my life.
Student's Sketchpad
I'm in love with Student's Sketchpad. So funny!
Basically, the blog pokes fun at some of the elite schools in S'pore, and the one of the blogger of Student's Sketchpad is from jjc!(See here for picture, click on newspaper link).
It'll be unfair to the blog to just recommend one post, so just click here for the Archives. I assure you that you'll have fun. Hahaz..
Friendship Week
Its Valentine's Day. I have no girl to go out with. WHY?? Why is the world so unfair? Why is it that on every 14th Feb, i have to suffer in silence and walk the Jurong Point, all so lonely and sad; watching those lovey-doveys holding hands, muttering sweet nothings, laughing so sweetly, like nothing else in the world matters....... ARGHGHGHGHGHGH.
Nope. I am not going to whine about Valentine's Day. Not at all.
Its so loserish to whine about it right?
Only those pathetic, petty, useless losers whine and whine about how sad they are; how the world is so unfair blah blah...I CURSE ALL THE COUPLES. I curse the rose to prick the girl when the guy gives her the rose. i curse the couple to fall down the stairs when they're smooching on the escalators and block my way! I curse them, that when they are dating and strolling along the beautiful beach~~ THEN IT RAIN ON THEM, MUAAHAHAHAHAHAZ~
We must be generous, and wish all the couples out there..
Happi Valentine's Day! Enjoy!
PS: I'm joking.
I enjoy being a bastard and hate ppl openly.
"Ur gd consistently, he praise u... U r bad from the start, he wil be sarcastic all the way even if u becomes scholar." -weiyuan
I think that is a damn nice quote; one quote to describe this wonderful teacher i have in school.
Anyway, i have ample reasons to believe that my hatred for this specific person no longer has to stay hidden!
Face.My.Warth
Depression
*silence*
I dunno.
For confessions to come so straightforward. Maybe things are more than what they seem to be...
Or maybe, because i'm damn sad.
Shit class.
I did an entire post on the issue that happened in class today.
I decided not to take the risk.
Redemption
It was part of my nature to be competitive when it comes to school.
WAS.
Nowadays, call it erosion of determination? The only enemy i see is myself.
My laziness.
I avoided doing polar co-ordinates, because the topic just seems so... tough.
I'm so angry at myself.
Because i lost to myself.
There's still chance for redemption.
smartass
Chemistry SPA tml!!!!
I have no idea how to study. That's like worse than not studying.
Well. Already failed today's P&C/Probability test; proved i'm so idiotic that i can EVEN FAIL A PROBABILITY AND P&C TEST. Not a surprise if i fail any other tests from now on right.
Damn smart weiyuan.
Just damn smart.
S
The nice part about 'Smallville' is it likes to make some intended puns on Superman, as in, the Superman we know.
I remember one episode where there was this dog, a remnant of an experiment of the Kryton metoers, which had super-canine strength. I know it sounds absurd, but Superman's absurd himself what. Anyway, all the blah blah in between, eventually the dog become his pet. So at the ending part, when Clark gave the dog a bath and using a red towel to dry the dog, the dog started to run about with the towel on its back and made the towel looked like a cape. Took me a while to catch that; very intelligent pun.
Today's episode not bad too, with an expolding black Kryptonite caused a split of some kind, so a good and evil Lex came out.
Somehow, I too start to doubt if Lex was evil from nature or by nurture. Cuz the beginning of the show it showed Lex trying to do good by conducting experiments to find ways of improving agricultural thingys, but the later part, many things the evil Lex said made sense. (Another pun was made here too when evil Lex said, "I am the villain of the story")
"Spiderman 1&2" showed me how hard it really was to be a superhero. "Batman begins" showed me how hard it was to use the power to do good. "Smallville" showed me hoe hard it was to be a superhero.
I think, what drives us inside is not the good, but the evilness.
Everyone's evil. Depends on how much goodness we have that determines how evil we can be.
Guess.
I got it right the other time.
So zhun.
I believe i'll get the guess correct again this time.
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Suddenly, everything seems so clear.
It became the answer; the lost piece of puzzle to my confusion.
Yes. Repeat of history? Maybe.
I'll be lying if i said i'm ok.
But i can't do anything, can i?
Science & Religion.
My content module is Science and Religion, not surprising i chose it. As what Mrs Razal(nt sure hw to spell) kept saying, its a controversial topic. Indeed it is, or always were.
Today's lesson was enriching, brain-cells killing, as we watched a dvd about the issue of Intelligent design and evolution, which one to believe or accept.
I learnt a few things from the dvd. Firstly, the teenagers, at ago 15-16 are already discussing and questioning the 'chim' topics of creationism and evolution. What were we doing at that time? Either mugging for the measly 'O'-levels or just playing around. Since when do we see any group of students setting up a petition to ask teachers to start teaching Creationism? At most we'll only see students setting up a petition to ask for less topics to teach lar.
Secondly, i realise(from my pov) the difference between Creationism and Evolution; that both can actually combine and the idea of Creationism may not necessary be religious in nature. Evolution, as what i interpret as, is how we(life, for that matter) came about. Creationism, on the other hand, is about who created us. I do not see how Creationism must necessarily be religious in nature; why can't a higher being be viewed in a scientific pov?
Maybe the 'God' can be a more advanced alien species? Why can't it be that there really is a God? Except that He didn't just 'shape humans in His form', but He simply put the slimy thing on Earth and being almighty, God knows the slimy thing will eventually evolve into life. Or maybe, He created the Big Bang, and that the Big Bang resulted in Earth's formation millions of years later and hence, life began.
The reason the debate keeps going on and on is stubborness on both sides. Scientists stubbornly believe Creationism is crap because there is no scientific support; but why isn't there any room for considerations? Believers of faith ostracize science simply because it defies religion; but from history, defiance turns out to be the truth, like what Galileo had did. Sticking to blind faith will not help; besides, shading Creationism with religious colours is unfair.
Intelligent Evolution, as i can call it that, can exist because we simply can't justify nor overthrow Evolution or Creationism. The answer is hidden, so possibilities are infinite.
People always say we should look forward, xiang qian kan; dwelling on the past of how, who or what created us is not going to bring us progress in any way; even if there is, not much.
The price of knowledge is contradiction; that's the joke of life.
When the world changes...
I believe hongyi lend me the mahjong cd with a conspiracy in mind.
To make me addicted to it then neglect work...
Polar co-or make me feel like an idiot.
Ok.
I am one.
I thought of something interesting today.
What if some higher power decided to have some fun, and begin to change the equilibrium of the world, including our perspective and views?
Great evil becomes lesser evil, good becomes holiness etc... Don't get what i mean? I shal illustrate using examples.
Imagine we put Hitler and Osama together. Automatically we group the two under 'evil'. But Hitler is a tad bit more evil than Osama, so maybe Hitler is one or two levels higher than Osama. So can when the perspective changes, and Hitler is classified as a little bit evil only.
Instantly, Osama, who is one or two levels less evil than Hitler, will be classified as good?
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Here's another one, imagine we put Patricia Mok and Chen Liping together. So Patricia Mok is pretty ugly, Chen liping is quite ugly, so Patricia is a level or two higher than Chen Liping. Again, we shift the perspective and classify Patricia as pretty.
So Chem liping becomes chio?
Woot, beauty~
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Ok, here, we put Weiliang and Kok mun together. Kok mun is damn thin, weiliang is fagfat, so if the perspective is changed and kokmun becomes fat, weiliang will be..........
Looks like ...
Strike Freedom!
Ok.
I think too much.
One-topic-person.
She didn't mean it. But somehow it hit a blind spot.
I really am quite a dry person for conversations. Which explains my inability to make small talk with people(mostly girls) around me.
I wonder if there are any courses on how to talk or something like that...
智慧的代价是矛盾。 这是人生对人生观开的玩笑。
Lesson learnt...
I learnt a few things today. Conclusion: Hate me. This is not a serious post. Most are meant as a joke.
Foresight
I'm not boasting or anything, but I think i'm pretty good at looking at people. Somehow, my first impression of a person, or an opinion based solely on my hunch has rarely failed me. That's why i never hesitated to keep away from the person if i feel something wrong.
In secondary school, there are a few cases that proved it. There's this guy called meng hong in my sec. sch back then. I never had a good feeling about him from the start; so i never got on good terms with him. His true face was shown in sec 2 when... well, a msn conversation between him and an woman leaked out; i think the "woman" was a set-up by some other guys in school lar. The conversation was... well, R18.
Another guy, i'll not hesitate to name, is a guy called Henry. We were in the same class for 2 years, but i had a hunch i don't want to be friends with him, and so we never spoke a single word in the 2 years. Well. It appears i wasn't wrong, if ihad been his friend i'll probably be the one being kissed by him*bleah*.
Right now. Right here. I found out that I am right about someone else too. A bastard from the start; a great faker.
I wonder if this entry is too incriminating.
I need answers.. do i?
Have you felt helpless about not knowing something?
I believe you have; i believe most of us have. Its human nature to be curious and wants to know about everything, especially those happening to you. Like why someone sudden;y starts ignoringyou, or a friend suddenly turns his back on you.
Even when you know the truth will hurt. You just want to know.
There's a lot of things I don't understand that's happening to me. Like why i'm losing sleep. Like why i'm taking the studies thing so hard. Like why.... am i asking for answers when i'm somehow scared of them.
Life's unknowns are so overwhelming. So much that it can crush.
Crush me.
The Gathering(s).
Going out with a big gang is always a headache when it comes to deciding what to do or where to head to. The most common occurrence are the circles; think 05s28 circular motion damn powerful liaoz lor.
Of course, small gangs have the problem as well.
I shall group the various personalities in group outings.
The Leader.
With great power comes great pek cek-nessresponsibility. The leader has the wonderful task of keeping the group together and decide what/where to do/go. Not easy when you handle the difficult personalities.
The leader who tries.(to no avail)
Rare to see around, i hadn't seen one yet, since most incapable people would be shy to lead, while the capable ones are rather willing to lead. But occasionally there would surely be the thick-skinned ones who thinks they can lead well but will fail for sure. There are cases where the person has the intentions but... well, no tian fen.
The out-spoken follower.
Out-spoken and gives constructive suggestions to the leader. Has the potential to lead, but keeps low profile. There would certainly be a few of these people who makes the leader feel that the world is beautiful after all; as they are the ones who gives the great ideas on where to go or what to do.
The out-spoken follower
Its marked red for a reason; Golden Rule of the universe: There will always be opposites to everything. Basically, this follower objects to wherever to go, then gives a suggestion, then when the group reaches, he either protests or... well, protest. I met one recently; group wanted to eat at restaurant, but someone(i dunno who) suggested another restaurant cuz the previous very ex, but when we went up they still complain too ex. Or the follower gives totally irrelevant or useless suggestions.
The introvert follower
The introvert follower keeps quiet for a few reasons. One, he is easy-going and can pei he the group whatever they do; flexible in other words. Two, he has no ideas so rather shut up and let the idea-filled ones do the talking. Three, he is in a bad mood, wants to cool down and will go home no matter what the outcome. Four, just pure introvert.
Me!
I know you don't care, but heck, ITS MY BLOG. So listen. I'm mostly the introvert one, cuz i'm pretty ok with everywhere, except that my sui bian gets on people's nerves especially in small groups since it makes me seem indecisive. Sometimes i do give good suggestions, but thats like probability 1/1000. The other 999 are useless suggestions. And i do get frustrated too, when i encounter the out-spoken follower
Yup, some broad generalization cuz i still haves tons of work undone; if left undone the teachers will undo me.
